Asela.net - Blog of Asela Nakulugamuwa

Time to move to the next Chapter

Wed, 09 May 2007 09:22:13 GMT

Well It's the time to leave msn & move in to my own Home (Blog)

From now on it's going to be http://www.asela.net/blog

Life getting change . . .

Fri, 11 Aug 2006 12:32:43 GMT

Sorry Now had to go.. I will write it soon . ..

It's nice to heard about 4Min . . .

Tue, 28 Feb 2006 15:47:52 GMT

It's happy to say that yesterday i met one of 4Min Friend (Himal) & we had a nice chat & belive me some of the things i heard gave me the feeling.. That I also done something to chang some of lives.. & there are people arond 4Min.. You may think i'm pround but not really feel the happines . . .

Forever and for Always . . .

Mon, 27 Feb 2006 16:49:05 GMT

Chat at 4MinutesPerDay . . .

Thu, 23 Feb 2006 04:07:23 GMT

Hi.. It's nice to say that at last yesterday I manage to add a Chat section to 4MinutesPerDay & it's still on testing age... Hope members going to like it...

http://chat.4minutesperday.com/

Valentine Day Vs 4MinutesPerDay . . .

Wed, 15 Feb 2006 09:48:54 GMT

mmm this time i also got massive hits for the 4Min on Valentines Day.. Well the Highest hit rate for the main web site (not for Archive section) The all time Highest hit rate for he main web site . . . :-)

What happend to me . . .

Wed, 15 Feb 2006 09:41:32 GMT

Well your guys wonder what happend to me.. Well tell you the truth I've been lazzzzzy to write things on my blog :-|

End of the 2005 . . .

Fri, 30 Dec 2005 11:20:39 GMT

Well it's end of the 2005 . . .

Windows Live Messenger 8 (Beta)

Sat, 12 Nov 2005 07:31:02 GMT

Microsoft is seems like renaming/ Re-branding there products.. With Windows & Live Previous MSN messenger new version going to be Windows Live Messenger 8. But i remember they have used name as Windows Messenger as the default IM program comes win WinXP also.. But it stops with few updates & again Windows name comes up.. :-) Today got a chance to Download a Bets Version of new IM But when I tried to sign in with it it says My Passport ID not allow to sign in.. They must only allow PPL to sign in they have invited.. :-( mm Look UI seems good this time they have used Orange color as the default color instead of Blue.. :-)

Download

Notting Hill . . .

Wed, 26 Oct 2005 11:43:41 GMT

I just heard about the film "Notting Hill" waited to check it.. At last yesterday had a chance to check it.. :-) mmm like it as i thought it's a good movie.. a one inlucde theme song as "When You Say Nothing At All - by Ronan Keating" I like the way the songs goos on.. it's not just hang at the end.. the song also goos with the movie..

"The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd
Try as they may, they could never define
Whats being said between your heart and mine.."

Men Have Better Friends . . .

Wed, 12 Oct 2005 10:42:45 GMT

Friends of Women:

A wife was not at home for a whole night. So she tells her husband, the
very next morning, that she stayed at her (girl) friend's apartment
overnight. So the husband calls 10 of her best (girl) friends and none
of them confirm that she was with them.

Friends of Men:

A husband was not at home for a whole night. So he tells his wife the very
next morning, that he stayed at his friend's apartment over night. So
the wife calls 10 of his best friends and 5 of them confirm that he stayed
at their apartments that night and another 5 are claiming that he is still
with them . . . :-)

4MinutesPerDay another milestole..

Thu, 29 Sep 2005 03:11:54 GMT

Well today morning I just went through 4MinutesPerDay eMail list & found out it passed the 20,000 members mile stone.. :-) Actually 20,003 for that moment.. & felt happy about it.. :-) Hope all of those members enjoy daily eMail . . .

Internet Explorer Developer Toolbar Beta . . .

Wed, 28 Sep 2005 10:18:56 GMT

Well heard yesterday one of my colleague talking about this.. So today done a search found this nice tool i already installed a tool bar to check & validate HTML, CSS, JavaScript & all.. Bc's it's going to really help for my Web Developments & today found this Beta Product from Microsoft.. So think this is the best going with IE.. Any way hopes this going to help if you also doing web related developments...

Overview

The IE Developer Toolbar provides several features for deeply exploring and understanding Web pages.

-- Explore and modify the document object model (DOM) of a web page.
-- Locate and select specific elements on a web page through a variety of techniques.
-- Selectively disable Internet Explorer settings.
-- View HTML object class names, ID's, and details such as link paths, tab index values, and access keys.
-- Outline tables, table cells, images, or selected tags.
-- Validate HTML, CSS, WAI, and RSS web feed links.
-- Display image dimensions, file sizes, path information, and alternate (ALT) text.
-- Immediately resize the browser window to 800x600 or a custom size.
-- Selectively clear the browser cache and saved cookies. Choose from all objects or those associated with a given domain.
-- Choose direct links to W3C specification references, the Internet Explorer team weblog (blog), and other resources.
-- Display a fully featured design ruler to help accurately align objects on your pages.

The Developer Toolbar can be pinned to the Internet Explorer browser window or floated separately.

http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyID=E59C3964-672D-4511-BB3E-2D5E1DB91038&displaylang=en

The one I used (It's really good & Free)

Web Accessibility Toolbar

Free software for checking web site accessibility: document structure, colours, HTML, CSS, links, images ...

A Gift . . .

Wed, 28 Sep 2005 09:10:17 GMT

Well 1st i'm going to publish an Poem.. well it's not mine.. I'm going to publish it today as it's a special fro me (this is the one i used today 4Mintes) Well I'll tell you why it's a special in later day.. :-)

A Gift . . .

What have I done,
to deserve this gift I've received..?
It is a gift without comparison,
that is more precious to me than can be believed.

I don't know why I've been blessed,
with such a heavenly gift.
And if this is truly a dream,
then I never want this sleep to lift.

Why you chose to give me this gift,
is more than I can see.
But in return I promise,
that you will never lose me.

I will stay by you always;
never letting you fall.
And if you are ever in danger,
I will defend you until I fall.

For you are a gift,
that I hope never to lose.
And for as long as I live I'll know,
no gift in this world deserves to be cherished more than you . . .

After long long long.. Time . . .

Wed, 28 Sep 2005 09:00:31 GMT

Hi.. Well after long long time.. mmm well tell you the truth I've been bit busy.. Ok ok.. been bit lazy to write.. :-) Sorrryyy . . .

The truth is that . . .

Thu, 08 Sep 2005 10:19:01 GMT

Girl I'm Gonna Miss You - by Milli Vanilli (song)

Tue, 09 Aug 2005 15:46:24 GMT

Girl I'm Gonna Miss You - by Milli Vanilli (song)

I knew it from the start
You would break my heart
But still I had to play this painful part
You rapped me 'round your little bitty finger
With your magic smile
You kept me hangin' on a lovers cross a while
You put your spell on me
Took my breath away
But there was nothin' I could do to make you stay
I'm gonna miss you
All the love I feel for you
Nothing could make me change my point of view
Oh girl
I'm gonna miss you baby

Giving all the love I feel for you
Couldn't make you change your point of view
You're leavin'
Now I'm sittin' here, I'm wastin' my time
I just don't know what I should do

It's a tragedy for me
To see the dream is over
And I never will forget the day we met
Girl I'm gonna miss you

Like a honey bee
You look the best of me
Now I can't erase those memories
Like a fairy tale
You are so unreal
You left a scar that's so hard to heal
When you had a taste of paradise
Back on earth can feel
As cold as ice
I'm gonna miss you
I miss you

Giving all the love I feel for you
Couldn't make you change your point of view
You're leavin'
Now I'm sittin' here, I'm wastin' my time
I just don't know what I should do

Feel this . . .

Fri, 22 Jul 2005 13:20:02 GMT

The Friend Crush: Is This Love Or Friendship . . .

Mon, 18 Jul 2005 11:47:33 GMT

Well found this interesting article from KrAzY Blog & thought to publish agian . . .

The Friend Crush: Is This Love Or Friendship

He's your good friend. She's your best confidant. You have known each other for a few years and have shared meals, movies, hobbies and vacations. You have confided to each other about your latest love interest and turned to one another for support when the relationship(s) failed. You can't imagine life without your good friend.

But for a while...

You've felt jealous of his dates. You've been overprotective of her since she has been seeing the jerk. You've been having very strong feelings of attraction and a desire for something more than friendship. Could it be that your feelings for him/her have grown into something more? If so, your relationship may have developed into a "friend crush".

You don't know what to do. You know you want to continue spending time together- more time. But it's getting hard. You fantasize about having more with this person and are beginning to feel like a jealous would-be partner. Do you pretend everything is the same? Do you start distancing yourself- hoping your feelings will go back to the way they were? Do you actually TALK directly and honestly with your friend about how you feel?

What will happen to the relationship if you make the WRONG choice?

Just as all people are unique, so are the characteristics of their relationships with others. There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this increasingly common dilemma. So, let's take a look at your options. You can:

* ignore your feelings, keep your boundaries in check and pretend everything is status quo

In order to choose this option, you must be able to deny your feelings so well that even you don't know what they are. You will also have to continue being comfortable on the sidelines while someone else has the relationship with this person that you desire. You will most likely be asked what you think of this or that person and be expected to be happy and supportive of your friend when they meet the right someone for them. In return for all this, you will still have your friend.

* begin to spend less time with your friend (crush) while seeking out new friendships to pursue and strengthen

This option will most likely cause confusion and hurt on the part of your friend who will wonder what happened. They may be understanding and accepting of your need to spread your wings and support you in doing what you need to do. Either way, you will see less of them and your relationship can weaken and perhaps disappear altogether as they move on with new people. If you can distance yourself for a while and no longer feel the romantic butterflies, you can always give them a call and may be able to pick up somewhere near where you left off.

* continue the relationship with your own hidden agendas - a desire for romantic intimacy and the hope that the person will realize that they feel the same way

If they become involved with someone else in the meantime, you can work to sabotage their new relationship or you can leave them wondering where all your anger and hurt feelings are coming from. You can spend a lot of time and energy handling it this way, without anything to show for your efforts but the loss of a good friend.

* have an open and honest discussion with your friend regarding your new feelings for them

This is the choice that seems to be the hardest for folks to make. Often what I hear from people in this position is that they fear "ruining the friendship" if they discuss their feelings honestly. While this is a very understandable concern, it isn't well thought out. It is emotional, not rational. Look again at the other options. Every one will bring about a change in your current friendship.

Why?

Once your feelings have changed, so does the relationship. Ignoring them, hiding them or distancing yourself will lessen your closeness and the positive dynamics that flow between good friends. You can't go back. You need to decide how you want to move forward or if this is an option for you. . It is also possible in choosing this option that you will learn that they have similar feelings for you that they were afraid to reveal. Therefore choosing this option could result in romance and a love relationship based on true friendship.

Intimacy exists in all close relationships. It is the ability to be completely open and vulnerable to another without fear of harm or rejection. So, by definition, we cannot be intimate with another while hiding or denying our true feelings and needs to them.

The choice will always be yours. Choosing wisely is about really knowing the options, the consequences they bring and what will be best for you and your friend.

by Toni Coleman

Sweetest Day . . .

Fri, 15 Jul 2005 12:29:06 GMT

Yesterday was a one of Sweetest Day of my life . . .

Photo Album: Ninda Noyana Handawe . . .

Fri, 29 Aug 2008 01:50:48 GMT

Ninda Noyana Handawe . . .

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0001

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0002

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0003

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0004

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0005

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0006

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0007

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0008

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0008_1

Ninda Noyana Handawe by Iraj_0009

More Photos...

Photo Album: My own at alone

Mon, 14 Feb 2005 12:01:05 GMT

My own at alone

13-01-2005_01

13-01-2005_02

27-01-2005_02

07-02-2005_04

11-02-2005_05

Blog list: Blog list . . .

Sat, 12 Nov 2005 06:39:13 GMT

Blog list . . .

Custom List: My Web Life . . .

Sat, 03 Sep 2005 10:15:12 GMT

My Web Life . . .

Asela.net
- My Personal Home Page
4MinutesPerDay.com
- Thought to Light up your Life . . .
ObaMagemai.com
- Part of my dailly life (memories) . . .

Custom List: Music I love . . .

Fri, 01 Apr 2005 13:27:16 GMT

Music I love . . .

Oba Magemai
by - Ranidu and Ashanthi
Ninda noena hendaewa
by - Ranidu Ft. Iraj
Surangana Kirilliye
by - Infas Ft. Iraj
Paya ena sandawatha
by - Bathiya and Santhush
Pini Binduwak
by - Bathiya and Santhush